Archive for the Emotional Intelligence Category

A letter to my child

Disclaimer: This is not an announcement that I’m about to be a father. It’s a letter that I would like my future children to read and keep close to heart no matter what they go through in life; it’s the expression of what I would like them […]

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Going with the FLOW whether you feel motivated or not

Here’s a video on how to use “flow” to take advantage of your highest (most motivated) moments while understanding your lowest (least motivated) ones.  

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Your masculinity is soooo fragile…

Recently, while I was sitting on a bus, Mr. Macho Man came to sit next to me in the middle seat (between me and another guy). As soon as he sat, he exaggeratedly spread his legs to force as to close ours. Instinctively, this behavior annoyed the […]

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What is love?

What is love?

Falling in love can be out of our control but staying and standing in love is a choice. It’s a choice to nurture a relationship; it’s a choice to enjoy every single great moment; it’s a choice to find the lesson in every difficult moment. And it’s […]

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Are you an effective communicator?

How do you know when you’re an effective communicator? It’s simple: The meaning of communication is the results you get. There are people who believe that what they say is more important than what people understood from it. If that’s the case, then might as well talk […]

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When people choose to NOT acknowledge you

I’m the kind of person who loves to be acknowledged, recognized, thanked; I love to be told that I’ve done a good job. And sometimes, I realize that no matter what I do, there are people who have already chosen to dismiss me, either because of the […]

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Are you on a mission to love or to divide?

Never look down on a person as long as they’re still alive. Life has its way of teaching us lessons on humility.  Don’t judge a person by their bank account, the color of their skin, their gender or anything else that you assume “makes” them, but on […]

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